Make Your Mentee Feel Special When Goals Are Met

She did it! Your mentee learned all her multiplication tables. Or she was chosen Student of the Day for her good behavior.

Setting goals is one of the best ways to motivate children. Sometimes reaching a goal feels so good, it’s all the reward your mentee will need to keep going. But challenging accomplishments call for a special celebration.

Here are some fun ideas:

• Take a picture. Photograph your mentee as she achieves the goal. Get a picture of her crossing the finish line. Or snap a shot of her holding her completed science fair project. You could also ask your mentee to draw a picture of her accomplishment. 
• Keep a journal. Give your mentee a special “goals journal.” As she works toward each goal, have her write it in the book. She might list the goal, the date she achieved it and any thoughts she has along the way.
• Plan a special surprise. When your mentee reaches her goal, write a note offering her some small reward. It might be a trip to the ice cream parlor or a chance to invite a friend the next time you go out together.
• Make a victory dinner. Get out your good dishes. Cook your mentee's favorite foods. Decorate the table. Have a special dinner to celebrate her success.

adapted from Parent Connection