The Roles of Mentors

Who is a mentor?

A mentor is an adult who provides young people with support, counsel, friendship, reinforcement
and a constructive example. Mentors are good listeners, people who care, people who want to
help young people bring out strengths that are already there. As a mentor, you can help connect youth with the other four resources: safe places and structured activities during non-school hours,
a healthy start, a marketable skill through effective education and an opportunity to give back
through community service.

What do mentors do?

Mentors influence young people 1) by enhancing social skills and emotional well-being; 2) by
improving cognitive skills through dialogue and listening; and 3) by serving as a role model and
advocate.

What are the general do’s and dont's?

Do develop a mentoring relationship built on trust and respect. Do know the importance of
developing the relationship above all other goals. Do assume the role of the adult, including the
responsibility for keeping the match going. Do not try to “fix” the mentee. Do not attempt to
change or reform the youth from the onset of the relationship.

What is and isn’t a mentor?

A mentor is a guide, a friend, a listener, a coach, a responsive adult. A mentor is not a savior, a
foster parent, a therapist, a parole officer, or a cool peer.


Taken from StandUpforKids.org.